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Sexual Trauma Questionnaire

Take this quiz to fully understand how you have been affected by sexual trauma.

__Were you raped when you were alone and vulnerable?

__Were you slut-shamed for what you wore?

__Were you blamed for your rape because of how much you drank?

__Were you accused by people close to you for lying about your assault?

__Were you raped or molested by someone close to you who was supposed to protect you?

__Have you carried your sexual assault in silence? 

__Have you been threatened with a slander lawsuit if you talked about it?

__Have you been told by friends or family to keep your mouth shut and get over it?

__Has your work suffered, or school grades plummeted because you were carrying his dirty little secret?

__How many of you have had no one beside you on the treacherous path of reporting? –don’t understand this one

__Have you had friends, family, cops, lawyers, or judges not believe you and take his word over yours?! 

__Have you been carrying this horror, his secret, all these years while he lives a vibrant, happy, successful and full life?!

__Did your statue of limitation run out?

He lives a good life while you limp along like a wounded animal, shot through the womb... bloody and bleeding but never quite dying. 

You know the words that girls and women get called... you are a  "slut" and a "whore“ and the baby is a "bastard".  Yet, there is no word for the man.  You're a slut.  What is he? 

The time is NOW! Rape culture must END! 

My hope is that one day any woman can walk down any street, any time of day, anywhere in the world, and not have to be on guard.  That we don’t have to train women to go from the grocery store to their car "safely," with her key between her fingers, cautiously looking around, her mace ready, checking in the back seat and underneath the car, and quickly locking the door as soon as she gets in.

I dream of a world in which any girl or woman can feel safe with men.

Let us create this reality!

© 2023 by Jane E Fendelman 

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